Wanting to stay alone doesn’t mean they are depressed. The society claimed introverts as shy and depressed people which they are not. Introverts are hated in many places. It is because they want to be silent and talk just what is necessary but this doesn’t mean that they are self-centered and cruel. They do love the people around them. They get on nerves when you do some crazy stuff around them. The following are the things you should avoid doing around introverts.
Unexpected calls:
This is acceptable if it is an emergency. But calling them when you are bored and expecting a call from them are not good signs. Even though you haven’t spoken to your friend in a long time he/she might not agree to speak to you. Do not call them without any purpose and even if you call try winding it up soon.
Fancy parties and social gatherings:
Inviting them and them not showing up at the party is a casual thing. You should not get angry by the way, because they hate to be around so many people having fun, instead they prefer having dinner alone watching their favorite TV show.
Invading their personal space:
Things to a certain extent will cause no harm. Asking questions, and wanting to know more about their life is not a good idea. They like to keep things to themselves. All we got to do is listen to what they say and not desiring for more. They do share when the situation gets serious.
Annoying questions:
Some extroverts couldn’t digest the fact that the others are silent and keep asking annoying questions. I am telling you this will not work. Questions like, ‘Why are you so quiet?’, ‘I am your friend why won’t you share with me?’, ‘Are you stuck in some trauma?’ will surely drive them crazy. You know their personality just leave them like that. Do not bother with silly questions.
If a person means to you so much, you have to make them comfortable when they are with you. That is how they will know how much you love them.
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